tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6353175620385707812.post8056002840009245951..comments2023-11-03T06:02:56.462-07:00Comments on dulwichdivorcee: Slipping through my fingersDD's Diaryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05398659302311180518noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6353175620385707812.post-58542265205749960152009-06-16T09:06:36.196-07:002009-06-16T09:06:36.196-07:00(Just realised I missed this post over the weekend...(Just realised I missed this post over the weekend)<br /><br />So sorry you are feeling down. Counting blessings is a bloody hard thing to do! Take care of yourself. <br />Hugs.Suburbiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05352465945711496612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6353175620385707812.post-88697169379095984402009-06-15T14:10:13.347-07:002009-06-15T14:10:13.347-07:00Apparently it's the feelings you have in your ...Apparently it's the feelings you have in your dreams that are important and the area of life they relate to - not the detail. <br /><br />Your subconscious is trying to let you know that you feel X about Y. <br /><br />Hope that helps?! I'm still trying to apply that theory to my dream about our vegetable patch being flooded with hot bathwater and me feeling that it was just not worth the effort..where's Jung when you need him.<br /><br />Chin up sweetie xx<br /><br />P.S. I cried in the cinema when they did the 'Slipping through my fingers' song. So did Ella. Maybe they feel it too - the bittersweet changes in the mother-daughter dynamicPart Mummy Part Mehttp://partmummypartme.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6353175620385707812.post-35621749450533877862009-06-15T10:18:00.614-07:002009-06-15T10:18:00.614-07:00don't talk to me about slipping through my fin...don't talk to me about slipping through my fingers! that wretched song is singlemindedly causing just so much damage! Just saying the phrase can prompt a massive breakout of tears! Nostalgia is a cruel beast to which I'm increasingly prone. AND I can't even call on lovely memories of Disney (I'm a "real" friend of Jane's and I can't begin to tell you how bitter and twisted I am!!)Millahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15967731998504496807noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6353175620385707812.post-59756264107205091532009-06-15T03:29:50.838-07:002009-06-15T03:29:50.838-07:00PHM, thanks, you are right, I need to have a good ...PHM, thanks, you are right, I need to have a good look at changes to make ....<br /><br />Lulu, thanks for the ((((hugs!))))<br /><br />G, yep, up and at 'em! <br /><br />Dr Rosiero, I took your prescription for choc peanuts, trousers rather snug now but definitely happier ....hope it was a repeat prescription!<br /><br />Thanks, MPT, for the lovely comment and the accidental laugh! Will pop over chez toi when I've eaten all the chocolate peanuts ....DD's Diaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05398659302311180518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6353175620385707812.post-5354967489161402812009-06-14T11:51:58.484-07:002009-06-14T11:51:58.484-07:00Oh dear, what a blunder ... of course, I meant to ...Oh dear, what a blunder ... of course, I meant to say 'blog' !!!mumplustwohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15602390879909138063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6353175620385707812.post-78282173353693501402009-06-14T11:50:12.954-07:002009-06-14T11:50:12.954-07:00Have just visited your bog for the first time. I t...Have just visited your bog for the first time. I think you write beautifully. Can really relate to what you are feeling right now and just wanted to say: you are not alone. All strength to you.mumplustwohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15602390879909138063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6353175620385707812.post-7151970721179731222009-06-13T08:19:38.744-07:002009-06-13T08:19:38.744-07:00Sounds as though you are stressed, my dear, what w...Sounds as though you are stressed, my dear, what with nightmares and maudlin thoughts and shoulders up to your ears. My advice.... <br /><br />1.Make the most of your little cherubs while you still can. Savour every minute.<br /><br />2. Find the nearest Dulwich massage parlour for a little self-indulgence, followed by a night in with a good DVD and a mountain of chocolate peanuts. Dr Rosiero has spoken!!ADDYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01018958238940897902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6353175620385707812.post-2031725570947050412009-06-13T03:28:58.516-07:002009-06-13T03:28:58.516-07:00Move on, DD, just shed a few tears & move on. ...Move on, DD, just shed a few tears & move on. Better times are ahead......Mariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09977676093756206414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6353175620385707812.post-20092194586971785422009-06-12T12:32:14.778-07:002009-06-12T12:32:14.778-07:00Good to see that it's the Disney 7 to the comm...Good to see that it's the Disney 7 to the comment rescue - we need to get away and re-group. It's all going wrong. Big american ((((((hugs))))))) Lxxxfamily affairshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17896692261265817869noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6353175620385707812.post-73078170523095912642009-06-12T12:10:51.245-07:002009-06-12T12:10:51.245-07:00Big hugs over to you! And yes you can be self indu...Big hugs over to you! And yes you can be self indulgent at times, it happens to all of us to sit down and reflect and it can even be very positive. On one hand like you said you can count all your blessings, on the other hand you can figure out what is not working too well and it helps making the decisions to change. <br />When self indulgent becomes self pity you need to start thinking differently. <br />BTW that slipping through my fingers song gets me each time and I have boys so no daughter to relate to, what would it be otherwise! :0)<br />Take care xPerfectly Happy Mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12540802461861922439noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6353175620385707812.post-73725161396166903762009-06-12T11:50:25.594-07:002009-06-12T11:50:25.594-07:00EJ, Linda, LM and EM - thanks, you guys, I'm r...EJ, Linda, LM and EM - thanks, you guys, I'm really touched. The only thing that's stopping me from doing major snivelling now is the image of Craig The Incredibly Crap Barman mixing slo-mo mohitos for us and saying, 'did you catch that?' xxxxxDD's Diaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05398659302311180518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6353175620385707812.post-85368864622737013062009-06-12T10:56:59.188-07:002009-06-12T10:56:59.188-07:00Lovely lady, every person and circumstance is diff...Lovely lady, every person and circumstance is different and although it's easy to make blanket statements (with no particular person in mind), nobody can look back upon their life without a certain amount of regret and/or longing clouding the view (though I do also recall some clever bod once saying that you should only look back if that is the direction in which you wish to travel).<br /><br />Once, I dreamt (ridiculously) that I was crossing a difficult mountain path with my youngest child as a toddler; he stumbled and although I tried to hold onto his hand he fell over the edge, down and down until I could no longer see him. I can remember the feeling of watching him fall as though it were yesterday. I woke up with such guilt and distress that it stayed with me for weeks, trying to work out why I would dream things that upset me so much. Our subconscious can be so cruel.<br /><br />Linda's right, you need to be kinder to yourself. Sometimes, stuck here in rural arse-end-of-nowhere-ville, I yearn for a mojito and a giggle with you all to make everything better. Pour yourself a large one eh? xxEnglish Mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05761258925161245115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6353175620385707812.post-87524043630404249522009-06-12T10:32:48.322-07:002009-06-12T10:32:48.322-07:00You're carrying a great burden with you, so mu...You're carrying a great burden with you, so much has happened, give yourself a break. I like to hug Erin when she's sleeping when I feel like this :)<br /><br />Look after yourself <br /><br />Erica XLittlemummyhttp://www.littlemummy.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6353175620385707812.post-62965309660702994522009-06-12T10:15:32.159-07:002009-06-12T10:15:32.159-07:00Hello, for one you don't have to apologise to ...Hello, for one you don't have to apologise to me - so you made a bit of an oversight in a piece you were kind enough to submit FOR NO MONEY which read beautifully - so what? That doesn't matter a jot.<br /><br />But you do need to be kinder to yourself, I can't believe how lucky I was to meet you, Jane, Becky, Lulu, Erica and Laura and to spend that time together. <br /><br />I hope you can get some good rest and take some time for you. I know that the many people who admire you and your wonderful blog will be around to also tell you what a shining star you are, so I'll move along.<br /><br />But there's nothing 'self indulgent' about feeling a bit down or stressed - look at everything you do each day for other people.<br /><br />Take care of yourself and much love to the classiest lady I've met - but then I am from Cannock. xxLindahttp://www.havealovelytime.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6353175620385707812.post-27866614646894395032009-06-12T10:11:56.206-07:002009-06-12T10:11:56.206-07:00Oh honey...so totally understand this one. I had ...Oh honey...so totally understand this one. I had a dream a few days ago that stayed with me for two whole days, casting a pall of melancholia over everything. I do believe that characters in dreams are parts of ourselves. I'd be more inclined to think that the friend is standing in for your shadow and that there is a part of you that just wants to scream and yell at the loss of childhood and innocence (both your childrens' and your own)..... or is that really crap?<br />Hmm, I do think we need that drink....or that holiday. heck, bring on the next Disney is all I can say... <br />Big hug. JanexxxExmoorjanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09230395732150659356noreply@blogger.com